A decade of research on parenthood regret
A decade of research on parenthood regret
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Piotrowski, Konrad
Roskam, Isabelle
Mikolajczak, Moïra
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2026-03-11
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Trends in Cognitive Sciences
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11
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30
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1021-1032
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1364-6613
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2026-11-05
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Regret is a universal emotion, yet regretting the decision to become a parent remains a profound cultural taboo. Recent evidence establishes parenthood regret as a distinct phenomenon driven by counterfactual thinking. This review synthesizes a decade of research, revealing that the inherent irreversibility of the parental role makes this regret uniquely maladaptive, leading to a chronic psychological burden. Emphasizing the implications of these findings, we highlight how understanding parenthood regret can inform clinical interventions, shape social policies regarding declining fertility, and foster a more authentic public discourse. Recognizing this experience does not diminish the value of family life but provides a necessary window into how life-defining decisions and counterfactual thought reshape human identity.
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parenthood regret
counterfactual thinking
self-conscious emotions
21 parental identity
decision-making
counterfactual thinking
self-conscious emotions
21 parental identity
decision-making
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Parental burnout in the first years of the parenting role. What does it depend on, how does it develop and what are its consequences?
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2021/42/E/HS6/00120
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